Proverbs 23
My Testimony: A Journey of Chasing Wisdom
There was a time in my life when I had to chase after wisdom with everything in me. I was married to a man who was not chasing after the heart of God. It was tough—raising children, serving in ministry, and striving to be a godly wife to someone who did not share my faith. I often felt alone in my spiritual walk, crying out to God for direction.
In those difficult years, wisdom became my lifeline. I had to seek God daily to know how to love my husband while standing firm in my faith. I had to ask Him for guidance in raising my children in His truth, even when I lacked support at home. I had to trust that God saw my struggles and would sustain me. Looking back, I see how wisdom didn’t just get me through that season—it transformed me. It deepened my relationship with God, strengthened my character, and gave me a testimony that I now use to encourage others.
“Buy the truth and do not sell it—wisdom, instruction and insight as well.”
Wisdom is something we must chase after. It doesn’t come naturally, and it isn’t always easy to apply, but it is essential for navigating life’s challenges. Whether you are married, raising children, serving in ministry, or walking through singleness, wisdom is what helps you stay rooted in God’s will.
Chasing Wisdom in Motherhood
Raising children is one of the greatest responsibilities God entrusts to us. Without wisdom, we risk parenting based on emotions, culture, or pressure rather than God’s truth. There were many times when I felt exhausted and unsure of how to lead my children spiritually while carrying the weight of an unequally yoked marriage. But God reminded me that my obedience to Him would bear fruit in my children’s lives.
How to Chase Wisdom in Motherhood:
• Stay in the Word daily – Your children will see your faith lived out in your actions.
• Pray over your children – Cover them in prayer, asking God to shape their hearts.
• Lead by example – Teach them how to seek wisdom by modeling it yourself.
• Trust that God is working – Even when you don’t see immediate results, know that God’s hand is on your children.
Chasing Wisdom in Marriage
Being a godly wife when your husband isn’t walking with the Lord is a heavy burden. I know what it feels like to pray for your spouse, to desire spiritual unity, and to long for a marriage that reflects Christ. Wisdom in marriage isn’t just about knowing what to do—it’s about knowing when to speak, when to pray, when to stand firm, and when to extend grace.
How to Chase Wisdom in Marriage:
• Pray for your husband, not just about him – Ask God to soften his heart and draw him near.
• Honor God first – Your faithfulness to God will impact your marriage more than your words ever can.
• Seek godly counsel – Surround yourself with wise, faith-filled women who can encourage you.
• Guard your heart from resentment – Ask God to fill you with love and patience, even when it’s difficult.
Chasing Wisdom in Singleness
Singleness, whether temporary or permanent, is not a waiting period—it is a time of preparation and purpose. The world may try to convince you that fulfillment comes from marriage, but true fulfillment comes from chasing after God’s wisdom and calling.
How to Chase Wisdom in Singleness:
• Embrace this season – Use this time to strengthen your relationship with God.
• Grow in knowledge and purpose – Discover the gifts and calling God has placed on your life.
• Seek wisdom in relationships – Be prayerful about who you allow into your life and heart.
• Trust God’s timing – Whether He calls you to marriage or a life of singleness, His plan is always best.
Additional Points to Remember When Chasing Wisdom:
• Wisdom requires humility – You must be willing to admit when you don’t have all the answers.
• God’s wisdom often contradicts the world’s wisdom – Stay anchored in His truth.
• Wisdom is an ongoing pursuit – No matter how much you grow, there is always more to learn.
• Surround yourself with wise people – Proverbs 13:20 reminds us that walking with the wise makes us wise.
Reflection Questions:
• Am I actively chasing wisdom, or am I waiting for it to come to me?
• Do I turn to God first in difficult situations, or do I rely on my own understanding?
• What practical steps can I take today to grow in wisdom in my current season?
Prayer:
Lord, I thank You for the wisdom You freely offer to those who seek it. I ask You to guide me in every season of my life—whether in marriage, motherhood, or singleness. Teach me to trust You when things are hard, to seek You when I lack understanding, and to walk in obedience even when I don’t see the results right away. May my life be a testimony of what it means to chase after wisdom. In Jesus’ name, Amen.